Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Guest Post: All Women Are Beautiful.

This is written by Joseph Daniel.
Recently, I met a lady I knew years back at a local supermarket and after exchanging pleasantries, I took out time to admire her again. Her once robust and factory fitted boobs were almost popping\exploding out of her red gown. The backside made me remember Flavour's song "...because your waist 34, your hips 44 and you're 24..." has now turned into something else that would make one purge. Her once ebony black skin is now half white and half charcoal. And to crown it all, she had this accent that made me wonder if she's not staying in the same hood as me. This once figure 8 babe has now turned into figure.
"I don't know what to call it", and this is really bothering me.
Why are ladies so insecure about their looks and especially their body shape these days? The confidence is totally lacking and with the social media influence, everyone wants to look like Amber Rose, Nicki Minaj, Kim Kardarshian, etc... This insecurity of looks has led many young ladies into altering their beautiful body shape and becoming monsters, always injecting one stuff or the other to stay in shape. And guys are not even helping matters because virtually everyone needs a lady with big boobs, flat tummy and heavy backside. The need for a fair skinned lady is not even helping matter at all.
If you are reading this piece and you are not sure whether you are beautiful or not, I want to tell you that I admire you, just the way you are. Are you thinking of enhancing your boobs, backside, go under the knife and perform series of surgeries to look like Queen Barbie, I dare to say you don't need it. If you need to be loved, you don't have to alter your looks to please the world, your girlfriends, spouse, boyfriend or whoever insulted you. You are a figure 8 babe and someone deserving of you will appreciate you, just the way you are.
Don't change to make the world happy, change to make yourself happy. In the end my dearest figure 8 babe, nobody will feel the pains you are going through to maintain that body. The cost of maintenance may be too high and you will start to 'runz' that same body to get enough money to maintain it. Its a crazy lifestyle not worthy of mentioning at all. Why not make it simple? Why not have fun and enjoy the beautiful body God has given you? If you had a serious accident and the need for the surgery arises, that's a different case and I may approve of that depending on the circumstances surrounding it.
Above all my darling figure 8 babes, you are beautiful and special. The world wants to see and hear your unique story. Don't try so hard to fit in, be outstanding. And believe me, there's always that special someone who will value and appreciate you just the way you are. All these beautiful gowns sold in the market are not for fancy, buy some and beautify that perfect body God has given you. 


  1. my father once said that. he said the inside and the outside determines a beautiful woman, not only looking at the beauty, curves and figures but the inside character of the woman also counts.

  2. Word! The writer has said it all. Ladies please embrace your natural beauty. The artificial is getting out of hand.


  3. Thank you for this. The rate at which young girls are going about this fashion thing is something else


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